Ramadan & writing


Salaam Reader,

I didn’t used to write in Ramadan.

Many years ago, before I started teaching writing, before any of my stories were published, before I began to think of my writing as something worthy of care and attention, I used to take a break from writing in Ramadan.

Just like I took a break from listening to music and watching movies, I also took a break from writing.

It pains me now to think that I used to treat my writing as something wasteful and indulgent — akin to watching a movie — and that I needed to stop doing it in Ramadan.

But I can see now why I did so.

If I treat my writing like it’s just a hobby, and if everyone around me takes my lead and devalues my writing in the same way, then of course it would feel like I’m wasting my time if I write in Ramadan. I could be reading Quran or listening to a lecture. I could be doing any number of things that count as worship.

Alhamdulillah, I don't think of my writing as a wasteful pursuit anymore. Instead, I see it as something that I do purposefully.

Here's how I reframed my thoughts to view my writing in a more positive way.

Firstly, I began to see my writing as part of my work. No one quits their job or gives up on their responsibilities during Ramadan. If writing is part of the work that I do, why would I quit during Ramadan?

Secondly, and more importantly, I came to see writing as a part of my spirituality. I love to write and I always feel so grateful after a productive writing session.

Writing is a gift that Allah has chosen for us and blessed us with. How else will we honour this gift if we don't use it?

My dua for you this Ramadan is that you value your writing dearly, that you honour this gift that Allah has blessed you with, and that you use it in a way that brings you closer to Him.

If you’ve been feeling disconnected with your writing, here’s a question I have for you: If you view your writing as a gift from Allah, what changes?

This Ramadan, I encourage you to write. If you struggle with motivation and accountability, I'm considering offering some free live writing sessions this month. Let me know if this is something you might be interested in, and what time zone you live in.

Last, but not least, Ramadan Mubarak! May Allah bless you and your loved ones and accept all your worship this month, including your writing!

With best wishes for your writing,

Hajera Khaja

Writer + Creative Writing Teacher & Coach


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Hajera Khaja

I help Muslim women reconnect with their writing and I teach creative writing in a way that's fun and intuitive. I love to see writers begin to believe in themselves again, break through their struggles and resistance, and show up on the page in all their brilliance.

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